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Will you meet with
us prior to the wedding?
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| Yes. In fact, I request that you meet with me
prior to the ceremony. This exercise allows me to spend about 90 minutes
getting to know you. I personalize every wedding ceremony based on this meeting,
but more importantly it allows me to observe the dynamics of your relationship.
We will spend time discussing the concept of not only marrying the right person,
but also being the right marriage partner. You will leave the prenuptial
counseling conference knowing that your ceremony is as important to me as it is
to you. Should the need arise, I am available at any time (yes, 24/7) right up
until you walk down the aisle.
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Can family
members be involved in the ceremony?
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| Definitely.
I encourage the involvement of family members (especially
children) in the ceremony if you so desire. Involving children, parents,
siblings, or other family members in the ceremony can create for a very
spiritual and meaningful experience. Incorporating family medallions,
special readings, or the lighting of a marriage / unity candle can make the
ceremony memorable for all those involved. I have utilized the aforementioned
elements and I am happy to provide you with ideas concerning family involvement
in your wedding celebration. |
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Can you perform
a spiritual/religious ceremony?
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| Yes. I am an ordained independent minister
willing and able to perform ceremonies involving various religions. In fact, I
specialize in interfaith ceremonies and I am part of an interfaith marriage myself. I can
incorporate the customs and traditions of several religions into the ceremony
and create a cohesive spiritual experience. As I have stated before, this is
your wedding and I will do whatever I can to create the perfect experience. |
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Can we write
our own vows and design our own ceremony?
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| Absolutely. At the prenuptial counseling
conference, you will have the opportunity to participate in designing the
ceremony by selecting from a wide variety of wedding vows. If you would like to
write all or some of your own vows, that is encouraged as well. Designing the
ceremony is a joint effort. The more involvement that you have in the design
process, the more meaningful it will be for you. |
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How can we enhance the
meaning of our ceremony?
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| You can incorporate a variety of elements
into your ceremony. Introducing wine, remembering loved ones,
incorporating musical breaks, honoring attendants / parents, exchanging roses,
incorporating a sand / salt ceremony, or even releasing doves or butterflies
can enhance the meaning of your ceremony. This is your special day. I am willing
to do whatever it takes to make your wedding day memorable and unforgettable. |
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Are you willing to
perform a ceremony anywhere?
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Certainly.
I am very flexible and I am willing to perform your ceremony at the location of
your choice throughout New England. I have performed ceremonies at restaurants,
banquet halls, country clubs, chapels, private homes, and even aboard cruise
ships. My home is also available for elopements. Should you require suggestions
for a facility or locale, I am happy to provide you with such. If you are
planning a large wedding or an outdoor ceremony, I have my own
professional wireless public address system (no wires or microphone
stands to get in the way). |
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Do you have any experience with cruise ship weddings?
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 Yes, I have many years of experience coordinating cruise ship weddings. I can
officiate your wedding on board the
M.S. NORWEGIAN MAJESTY
or ROYAL
CARIBBEAN'S JEWEL OF THE SEAS
at the Black Falcon Pier in Boston. Any couple with plans to honeymoon on their
cruise to Bermuda can arrange early boarding for themselves and guests for their
wedding ceremony. Guests not sailing must depart by 3:00 PM. For additional
information, contact
THE WEDDING EXPERIENCE
at (800) 392-3472. (I am
their representative in the Boston area).
They will handle all your arrangements with options including photographer,
videographer, flowers, cocktail party with a D.J. or live music.
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What will you be wearing
during the ceremony?
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| I will be clad in a simple black robe (or a
Kente style robe if you would like) and stole on your wedding day. I can alter
my attire for you should you desire a more casual or formal (black tux) ceremony. I am a
rather stylish fellow and I can create the perfect outfit to complement the
ceremony. |
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Will you conduct a wedding
rehearsal?
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| I am available should you wish to have a wedding
rehearsal. I can direct the rehearsal from beginning to end while showing you
the proper placement for the wedding party, how to escort and seat guests, and
how to pull the runner down, etc. I will work with you until everyone in the
wedding party feels comfortable and confident with his or her role in the
ceremony. |
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What
other services can you provide?
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| In addition to solemnizing marriages, I am
able to perform vow renewals, same sex marriages, baptisms, notary
services, "naming of children" and many other spiritual blessings and
dedications. Please see a description of all of my services on the "Other
Services" tab. |
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Do you offer specials or
packages?
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| Yes, we offer a great package. For more
information click the gazebo.
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